Does Penis Size Really Matter for Sexual Stimulation?

“It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's about the size of the fight in the dog!”

“It's not the size of the boat it's about the motion in the ocean!”

I have heard these types of quotes my whole life and more often than not it's someone defending what they perceive as a lackluster size. The real question is “Are they right?” Today we are going to get into one of our most debated questions and find out if it really is all about the moves or the tools.

Quality vs Quantity (What is a real average)

We are going to start with a quote from a study published in the National Library of Medicine.

“Based on these studies, the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches (12.95-13.97 cm), but after taking volunteer bias into account, it is probably toward the lower end of this range.”

Between 5.1 and 5.5 is your real average, which means the vast majority of us fit within that range. If the vast majority of us fit in that range wouldn't it make sense that it is the best size for intercourse? We focus too much on size because face it guys Ego is a thing but what we really need to focus on is our technique which we will get into a bit later.

What is the G-Spot and can I reach it?

The G-Spot sometimes feels like this fabled spot inside a woman that only the men with the utmost sexual prowess can touch and that is so far from the truth. The G-Spot was discovered by a German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg who named it after himself, I mean who wouldn't. It is essentially a bundle of nerves that can cause immense pleasure for women. “Finding” that spot can be tricky because it will vary from woman to woman however it CAN be found and usually with your finger. Yes, If your finger can reach it so can your penis.

How do you get there? Using your fingers with your palm facing upwards you need to rub your fingers along the “roof” between the vaginal opening and the cervix. It should feel different to the tough and your partner should feel different when you touch it. Now that you know where it is time to figure out how to use it. And it is not about the Size Of Penis.

Penis size vs Skills

There is a popular website that has a space dedicated to people that were born with a far above average penis. In that safe space, those men discuss the problems that come with being so endowed, the truth is unless you are looking to get into pornography an over-average penis is more of a hindrance than a blessing. The biggest issue is that because of their size, they generally have no “skill” when it comes to pleasuring a woman.

Let me put it to you like this, if you went to a bar and ordered a beer and they hung a bucket over your head and did a long pour into your mouth it might be overwhelming. Sure you would still get drunk but it's not your preferred method of consuming beer.

Understanding your partner and what positions will help you reach the coveted G-Spot is more valuable than an overwhelming size. Being able to change the angle in which you stroke and the rhythm is all part of the skill involved in intercourse and an average penis is perfect for that.

Now on the other side of that spectrum, we have guys that are below average and looking to get into that average range. Now by now, you for sure have developed some skills that help you ensure your partner is receiving the pleasure they need. However, you can benefit from what we are about to get into, ways to increase your size to get into the average zone or even to the top of the average zone.

Different ways to increase the size of your Penis

The first thing I like to cover when discussing penis growth is that yes it is possible and it is consistently being studied by medical professionals. We are going to touch on a few of what I called the “preferred” methods. I call them this because they do not involve a risky surgery, cost an arm and a leg, have been proven to work, and are relatively simple to add into my routine.

Penis Weight Hanging

Penis weight hanging has been in use for decades and has been studied and published as a method used to increase the length and girth over time. It is a simple practice that you can do a few minutes a day.

With the Zen Penis Hanger you simply put on the comfortable silicone sleeve and attach the cotton noose to your penis. From there select the appropriate weight and let it hang for several minutes a day. You can even get the All Day Stretcher and attach it to your leg while you work to work on your size all day.

Penis pump

Penis pumps have come a long way since the old school tube with the ball on the end you squeezed for dear life. Today the Electric Automatic penis pump is a revolutionary tool that can not only be used to increase length and girth but also allows you to maximize your routine by collecting data on the time and suction you have been using.

It is simple to use and great for use with a partner. If you don't want to use it with a partner the vacuum technology is ultra-quiet for your privacy and with its custom bendable base, it is supremely comfortable.

Both of these methods are great for those of us who fall on the below-average size of the spectrum and even for those of us looking for a low-cost option to be within the higher end of the spectrum.

How to measure penis size?

While we are on the topic of how big we should be aiming for, one important aspect to look at is how to accurately get a measurement. The first step is to secure a ruler or a measuring tape, a flexible one is preferred not the stiff one from your garage.

Length

1. Secure the right tools.
2. Press the ruler down at the base of your erect penis down until you come in contact with bone.
3. Read measurement at the tip.

Girth

1. Trust me, use a “soft” flexible measuring tape.
2. Wrap the tape around the thickest part of the shaft.
3. Read measurement where the tape meets.

Final Words

In conclusion, it makes sense that we all want to be bigger but you are most likely exactly where you need to be. If you want to find good ways to not only increase length and girth to be able to maximize your skills and ability to stimulate the G-Spot look into a pump or a hangar to ensure you can achieve what you want without surgery. Never take for granted the skill it takes to perform in bed and that is a skill that is learned not born into. Take the time to learn about your partner and what positions maximize the length you have and you can prove the old saying right. “It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's about the size of the fight in the dog!”

Medical Disclaimer: If you have any medical conditions, questions, or concerns, please speak with your healthcare provider directly. The articles on Zen Hanger are underpinned by peer-reviewed research and information drawn from medical societies and governmental agencies. However, they are not a substitute for professional medical advice diagnosis, or treatment.